The Beliefs We Don't Know You Have
A DEEPER LOOK AT AWARENESS, CONSCIOUS CHOICE, AND THE POSSIBILITY OF A MORE FULFILLED LIFE.
A Founder’s Reflection
I have been thinking lately about how much of life we experience through beliefs we did not consciously choose.
We inherit ideas about success and failure. About money. About relationships. About ourselves. About what is possible. About what is responsible. About God, religion, morality, work, happiness, aging, achievement, and what a meaningful life is supposed to look like.
Some of those beliefs serve us extraordinarily well.
Some do not.
But there is a deeper problem.
We often don't know they are beliefs.
They simply become the way things are.
That distinction matters.
Human beings experience reality through consciousness. Our beliefs, conditioning, identity, fears, expectations, memories, and interpretations influence what we notice, how we interpret what happens, and what possibilities we are capable of seeing.
That doesn't mean reality is whatever we decide it is.
It means our experience of reality is filtered through us.
And if we are unaware of the filter, we can easily mistake our interpretation for truth.
Awareness Changes the Relationship
This is one reason awareness occupies such an important place in Total MindPower.
Awareness Creates Choice™.
The moment I become aware of a belief, I gain a different relationship with it.
I can examine it.
Where did this come from?
Is it true?
Is it completely true?
How does believing it affect the way I think, feel, decide, and act?
What does it cause me to notice?
What might it prevent me from seeing?
I don't have to immediately reject the belief. Awareness isn't rebellion.
It is simply the willingness to look.
And sometimes looking confirms that what we have believed is valuable and worth keeping.
Sometimes it reveals that we have been organizing part of our lives around an assumption we have never questioned.
Both discoveries are valuable.
Responsibility Without Condemnation
There is another important distinction here.
If awareness reveals that I have participated in creating some unwanted condition in my life, responsibility does not require self-condemnation.
Those are very different things.
Condemnation says:
Look what you did. What's wrong with you?
Responsibility says:
This is mine to examine. What can I learn from it, and what can I choose now?
One traps identity in the past.
The other restores power in the present.
Freedom without responsibility easily becomes blame.
Responsibility without awareness easily becomes shame.
But awareness combined with responsibility creates choice.
And choice creates the possibility of a different direction.
Learning to See Both Poles
Awareness also allows us to hold what I think of as polarity.
Most things in human experience contain more than one truth.
Religion, for example, has been used to create fear, shame, control, and condemnation.
It has also inspired extraordinary expressions of love, contemplation, service, community, forgiveness, sacrifice, meaning, and experiences people describe as encounters with God.
Both can be true.
Our tendency is to choose a pole.
Good or bad.
Success or failure.
Blessing or tragedy.
Right or wrong.
But perhaps greater awareness allows us to ask a different question:
What is here for me to recognize?
That question has become increasingly important to me.
I believe part of our responsibility for creating a fulfilled life is learning to harvest what is good, useful, beautiful, instructive, or meaningful from our experiences without pretending that everything about those experiences was good.
That isn't forced positivity.
It is recognition.
It is the same capacity we develop through gratitude: learning to notice what was already present but perhaps previously unseen.
There Is More We Don't Know
The older I get and the more I study human potential, the less interested I am in pretending certainty about things I cannot possibly know with certainty.
There is simply too much we do not understand.
About consciousness.
About the mind.
About existence.
About God.
About human potential.
Even about ourselves.
I don't find that discouraging.
I find it liberating.
Because uncertainty leaves room for possibility.
So I want to remain awake enough to question what I have been taught, aware enough to recognize my conditioning, courageous enough to examine my fears, and open enough to discover what may be possible.
That does not require abandoning belief.
It requires becoming conscious of belief.
Because perhaps the greatest limitation is not what we believe.
It is what we believe without knowing we believe it.
And when we become aware, something important happens.
We regain the ability to choose.
And possibility opens again.
— Dr. Ed Wheeler
Founder, Total MindPower Institute
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